1917 = History of Norma Smith Ray. This was sent to Joseph Steward by Jerri who gave permission to distribute the history.
Norma Irene Smith
Born Cache, Idaho
June 10, 1917
David Amanuel and Rosie Sheppard Smith had six children (Reed Edward - b 30 Aug 1909; Elwin M. - b. 4 Aug. 1910, d. 28 May 1986; Vera Amanda - b. 2 May 1912, d. 5 May 1994; Bulah Christina - b. 17 June 1914; Norris William - b. 22 June 1915) by the time Norma Irene was born. But being a prolific family that was not the last child. Another four children ( Russell Heber - b. 18 Dec. 1920, d. 16 Mar. 1922;Carroll LeGrand - b. 22 Feb. 1922, d. 26 Aug. 1990; Doyle Byron - b. 29 Mar. 1923, d. 3 Nov. 1944 as a result of a sniper’s bullet while serving with the American Forces in France during WWII; and Harvey Lloyd - b. 31 Aug 1931,) were added to the Smith family.
Rosie Sheppard (Norma’s mother) was born 26 July 1889 in Rexburg, Ida. She married David Amanuel Smith 24 Nov. 1908 and died 5 Sept 1967 in Idaho Falls. Norma’s David Amanuel Smith was born 2 Nov. 1886 in Auburn, Wyo. He died 10 Aug. 1970 in Idaho Falls, Ida..
Norma was born at 10 AM. Her brother Elwin describes her birthplace as a two room log cabin with a dirt roof. The inside ceiling was covered with cheese cloth, the walls lined with beaver board and tin. The logs on the outside were chunked with mud and cow manure (yuk). At the time of her birth there were eight people living there. The Smiths didn’t have many worldly possessions then or at any time. Three or four children slept in a bed.. But they were a family with lots of love and had the willingness to share. Norma’s name came by way of her brother Elwin (although there seems to be two accounts of this). He had apparently met a woman by that name and insisted his new little sister share that honor. The ‘Irene’ part was the name of Rosie’s youngest sister. Cache, Idaho, her birthplace, is near Victor/Tetonia area in Idaho. The actual ‘city’ no longer exists. For some reason Rosie never allowed her husband to bless the children. A good friend and the family’s Bishop James Nielsen blessed Norma on August 5, 1917. The day she was blessed Norma reports they went in a wagon. Her bottle had to be warmed and her father took a kerosene lamp, lit it and held the bottle over it.
At the time of Norma’s birth the Smith family was farming cattle. Norma says that moving was the major entertainment, or that it appeared to be. The names of Darby, Marysville, Idaho Falls (it was here that Harvey entered the family and was the only child to be born in a hospital), Fall River, Judkin are an integral part of her childhood. . Norma remembers that when a new baby was added to the household all the current children were bundled up and packed off to an aunts house. When they returned VOILA a new baby was there. It must have been magic because nobody ever told them how it happened.. The number of moves for the family was because of work. They never owned a home and moved whenever it was apparent there would be a better opportunity for work. The family moved in wagons pulled by horses. Norma’s father David would drive one wagon and
her sister Vera drove the other wagon. Once while they were moving they had a puppy. Occasionally they stopped to allow everyone a “leak”. When the dog wouldn’t go pee Vera squeezed it until it finally did its things and the wagons moved on. Norma says she thinks all the children were born in different places.
In Victor Norma remembers herding the cows when they wandered off. She couldn’t see where they were, but saw Elwin coming across the field. Norma didn’t realize it was Elwin and was afraid the “stranger” had come to steal the herd. Elwin knew he had her frightened and seemed to enjoy every minute of it. It was here in Victor Norma and Norris were the best of buds. They shared an old horse named Clip. They spent many hours enjoying the rides on Old Clip until he disappeared never to be seen again. Clip stepped on Elwin’s pants and trapped him there. Elwin yelled for help. When someone went to release him all Elwin could do was cry, “Old Clip, he’s a.... Old Clip, he’s a....”
When Norma was about three she perfected the art of ‘spoke walking”. That is apparently when you get on the wheel of the wagon and walk up them as the wheel went around. She was having a good time until a terrified father ran to rescue her. Little girls of this age wore dresses. One day Norma ran to her mother holding the dress up in both hands calling, “an egg, an egg.” When her mother thinking she had been gathering eggs, looked into the dress she must have been surprised to see a little water snake. Norma was probably calling “ a ‘ nake, a ‘ nake.” About this time she recalls climbing upon her father’s plow beams. She fell off and cut a gash in the back of her head. During the winter a couple of years later Norma remembers playing outside and climbing through a log fence. The log fell and she nearly bit her tongue off. It was just hanging from the skin on each side. When she went to the house her mouth was full of blood. Her mother nearly fainted. Since doctors at that time were few and far between (and more expensive than many families could afford) she was nursed back to health with family care and love.
The Smith children were “given” a cow to name by their father. Norma’s was named Cindy. The dairy herd was driven away one day when the payments could not be made. Norma remembers standing with her brothers and sisters and crying as they watched the herd being driven off. It may have been during the depression when everyone was losing their material things.
When Norma was about three or four (1921) her little brother Russell was very ill with chicken pox and contracted pneumonia. Because her mother was with her family from the birth of Carroll, Norma’s father was back and forth between the family home and where his wife was. Norma ended up having a few extra advantages. One was being able to ride on the train to Marysville where Rosie was confined with the new baby from Darby where the family was then living. The train ride was in the winter. Norma remembers her father carrying her to the train with her back to the blizzard. At Marysville Norma’s most unfavorite Aunt Mabel was caring for Rosie (her sister). Norma wanted to sleep by her mother, but Aunt Mabel made her sleep on the foot of the bed.
Sadly, Russell’s illness was too severe for recovery. He died of the chicken pox and pneumonia complications. Rosie always felt she could have saved him had she not been confined with the new baby, but that is probably not so as there were no drugs to treat pneumonia at the time. Russell’s little body was placed on an ironing board near an open window. Norma didn’t understand the implications of death. When she found him she rolled him off and carried him into the room where her mother was in bed and told her ,”Russell is cold. Get him warm, Mama.” That must have been a sad time for the family.
Because Norma was the youngest she went back and forth from Darby and Marysville with her father. The children at home had to take care of themselves - packing lunches, feeding the cattle, caring for the house. When Norma was with them for short times they had to take her to school. The teacher would take all the children’s coats, lay them on the floor and put Norma down for a nap. Apparently teachers then went beyond the call of duty as much as they do today.
While living in Marysville Norma’s mother gave her a dollar to take to the store to exchange for nickels. This was so they would always have change. The dollar was tied in a handkerchief for safe keeping. On the way home Norma had her 20 nickels tied in the same handkerchief swinging them around. Sure enough the knot came open, out flew the nickels into the snow and here came the tears. She doesn’t remember if she found them, got into trouble or just what. I’m sure there were a few ‘words’ considering how hard it was to earn a living.
In 1925 the family had been besieged with illnesses. In one year mumps, chicken pox, scarlet fever, measles afflicted the Smith children. These were considered so dangerous that a family with them could not leave the house, have anyone come in, groceries had to be delivered. Norma remembers riding in the wagon but could feel the remains of the mumps jiggling around as they traveled to Warm River for her baptism into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (Mormon). Again, a family friend performed the ceremony (Lloyd Johnson, confirmation by Rulon T. Sheppard).
While living in Warm River area, Norma and Norris were sent to retrieve the cows. When they arrived they found a new calf. It must have been a mind boggling thing to a couple of small children. How to get the calf home? They drapped it across a stick and straggled home with the herd grazing behind them.
Warm River provided a wonderful place for children to grow. One day Norma and her friend were playing near the river. They had a glass to get a drink with. They weren’t supposed to do that, but.....While attempting to get the drink Norma’s shoe came off and floated down the river. Norma yelled to her friend to catch her shoe in the glass. Unfortunately the shoe floated into....somewhere.
The next day her mother went into Ashton to buy shoes. Ironically Norma was left with the neighbors while her mother chose a pair of shoes for her.
Rosie Sheppard was an ambitious woman with beautiful brown eyes and nearly black hair, who seemed to have wings. Everything she did was done quickly and efficiently. On every special occasion Rosie would make a new dress. Of course the material was seldom new, but the workmanship was that of a good seamstress. She didn’t seem to be a happy person, but seemed to be set on her own path. Her own husband was never allowed to bless, baptize or confirm his own ten children.
Norma remembers the first movie she saw was a BIG moment. The family was going into Ashton in the buggy. Her brother Norris had stepped on a nail, but wasn’t about to be left out of the fun. He was, however, really, really miserable another time when the kids were going to see “Rin Tin Tin” each had a dime for the occasion. Somebody lost his/hers in a puddle of water and they all had to return to Auntie to get another dime before enjoying the fun.
AT the time the Smiths were living in Marysville Norma’s uncle came to her father. “Dave, I have heard of a project near Idaho Falls, a place called Osgood. There is a good chance for a farm for us.” That was enough to mobilize the family. Her two uncles loaded the families in three Model T Fords. It was early spring and still very cold. The Model T’s didn’t have any roll up windows so all the children just wrapped in quilts. Reid and Elwin drove a wagon with eh furniture. They moved into a home or 4 miles north of Osgood, Idaho. The home was quite nice. It was on the edge of a huge desert. That ground had all been plowed in preparation for planting. The wind blew dust until it ws an inch deep in the windows sills. Rosie wet sheets and hung them up to the windows so the children could breath. When the grain sprouted and thickened the dust problem was solved.
Norma thinks they may have lived there as share croppers for about three years. The house had two bedrooms and there was always a bed in the living room. The children were put to work early thinning beets. It was here that Rose became quite ill with a goiter and stomach ulcers. She was in the hospital for several weeks. The kids gave all their earnings to their father to help with the medical bills.
About three years later the family moved into Osgood one block from the small store and right on the edge of the school yard. The former school the children attended had had only two rooms with four grades in each. This school had a room for each grade. The house here was still rather small for the large family - only two bedrooms with the usual living room bed.
Norma’s dad drove the first school bus, a horse drawn vehicle. In 1924 a new brick building was constructed for all eight grades. The old buildings were used for teacher’s apartments. Norma graduated from this building where she found many friends and good times.
School was almost a special occasion to children who had limited things to do. Norma did well in everything except math. Her father had to help her, but that was often questionable because he did the answers in his head and Norma had to suffer from not having done the work they taught in school. She thinks that perhaps math was tough because she just didn’t know how to study. At that time the average home didn’t have many books or even time to spend on the studies.
Apparently choir was not her thing. In second grade the music teacher came to her room and asked each child to sing “I am here”. After Norma sang her the teacher moved on and there was no invitation issued to her to join the choir.
Norma wasn’t all smart all the time. During her grade school years she eyed a rather cold door knob and ,as children do, wondered how cold it was and promptly stuck her tongue on it to find out. Imagine her surprise and horror when it stuck there fast. Imagine also how uncomfortable she was for several days when she also promptly pulled it off, leaving a goodly portion of skin stuck to the doorknob.
Norma was a great basketball player in grade school. She was fast and good at getting the ball in the basket. At that time the girls could only play half court, but she made up for that and was once even put on a chair while everyone “praised” her abilities. She was also great at jumping rope and jacks and was allowed to play with the big girls.
The summers were wonderful for the country children even though they had to work hard (or at least as hard as children actually work). Thinning sugar beets was a family job. Since Norma was the youngest Vera and Bulah taught her to do the job. She often fell behind the others and would take her little hoe, cut out a whole section, then skip up a ways and do that again until she caught up with everybody else. At noon the children would jump in the canal and swim to their house for lunch before returning to work in the afternoon. Norma loved swimming and would even go to her friends home, help them with their chores (dishes) so they could go with her. When swimming wasn’t available or in the winter she and her sisters would play for hours with paper dolls made by cutting them out of the Sears catalog.
Besides working on the farm with her brothers and sisters, Norma eventually was able to babysit for real money. She recalls one time when she was hired to stay with a family of four children (one of which was a baby) for an entire weekend. She would go to bed and reach out of the covers with her foot to rock the baby when he awoke. She says she did wonder where and why parents would leave an 11 year old girl with that many children for that long. For her efforts she received $.25. That money was spent on a box of cherry chocolates which she hid in a tent in the back yard. Unfortunately her younger brothers Carrol and Doyle found them and ate them all. She was very angry.
Other memories were of going to the Temple in Idaho Falls to be sealed to her parents. Since there so many children there wasn’t room in their car. A relative took the overload, but charged them ‘rent’. Her mother had made her a new yellow dress to wear to the temple. Since the children were old enough they didn’t have to stay in the nursery and played on the temple grounds while their parents were taking out their own endowments.
Fortunately none of her children inherited the fear of lightening Norma had. When the family lived in Victor, Norma recalls there was a lot of lightening. Every time it would begin she would run in terror for the bedroom and dive under the bed.
While living in Victor Norma remembers that she and her friend began the bobby sox craze. The socks were rolled down until the ankles were about twice as large as normal. She is convinced that it was in Victor that the worldwide style was really begun by her and her friends.
Apparently Norma had to go into Idaho Falls to attend high school She recalls working there for a family for her board and room. She got home sick and quit to go home. Shortly thereafter there were blessed to have a high school in Ammon, about5 miles from home. The rickety house they were living in was replaced with a much better home, still with only two bedrooms and the living room bedquarters. After sleeping on straw ticks for all her life, Norma recalls getting a real mattress. A straw tick was simply a huge sack stuffed with fresh straw every fall and tied shut. How fun it was to crawl into those fresh ticks. They seemed to be two feet high, but by the next fall would have been reduced to three or four inches.
While living on the North End (as the Smith kids referred to it) they would all participate in chokecherrying near Rexburg. They would pick about 10 gallons of berries and Rosie would cook them When they were cool Vera (Norma’s sister) would squeeze them through a cheesecloth. The gallons of juice would be made into syrup. That was the fruit for the winter. After a few years they began buying eight or nine bushels of peaches and bottling them. It was during this time Harvey was born after Reid left for his mission.
The following is a transcript of a biography by Norma Smith during her senior year in high school. It came from a typed booklet which is still in her possession.
As much as possible, I have attempted to transcribe it exactly as she wrote it. (Jerri Ray Johnson, daughter - April 3, 2000)
Preface
“I have never before considered writing an autobiography. But as Miss Ulete Allen, English teacher of the Ammon High School, has given us this privilege of composing a story of our own life, I have taken the opportunity of doing so.
I have told about my birth although I do not know much about it only what my parents have told me. I have also told of my school, from the first grade, through grammar school and high school to where I am now.
I hope to complete this as I continue on through life.
CONTENTS
CHAPTER I ****************************FACTS I CANNOT REMEMBER
CHAPTER II ************************** SCHOOL IS ON
CHAPTER III ************************* MISSION BELLS
CHAPTER IV ************************* WAS I GREEN
CHAPTER V ************************** A DIGNIFIED SENIOR
Copyright 1935
By N. I. Smith, Idaho Falls, Idaho
IN A FAMILY OF
TWELVE
By Norma Smith
Chapter I
Facts I cannot Remember
“It was in the horse and buggy days, that a rather heavy dignified young boy, driving a horse hitched to a small buggie, entered a little town called Marysville, Idaho. Here he made his home. He worked for different people thus earning his living.
He began to mingle with the young folks and be in the crowds with them.
It was not long before he began to court a small browneyed girl. Every night after work or when ever he had a day off he would go to see the girl, he was going with. It was not long before they were merried, and he provided them a home of their own. They started life together.
After a few years of their merried life a son was born to them, he was only eleven months old when the second baby came, he was a frail delicate child and merely escaped death. The next two children were both girls, this made two girls and two boys. The last baby was two years old when another son was born to them. With the five children the young couple faced life together, sacraficing on every hand for their family. The family was thriving fairly well when the mother found out that another baby was on its way, this of course was me. When I was born that beautiful June day. I increased the family to six children. I was just as much welcomedas the others had been.
The next thing was to find a name for me, this was a difficult problem, because they thought that there was no name good enough. Mother at last decided on Virginia Nell.
It was Saturday and the following day would be when I was to receive my name. It was early morning of the Saturday, the door quietly opened, and in stepped a man, he was mothers brother. He had come to suggest a name for me, the name he had chosen was Norma Irene and thats as it was.
My first memories take me back to the summer when I was three years old.
One day I came running to the house, with my tiny gingham dress clutched in my delicate little hand making a basket, being careful not to loose my play mate. Mother looked into the basket and there she saw curled up in a knot a snake. She was horrified at the sight of it, and hurridly took it away from me, she told me never again to play with such a thing.
That following winter, mother, father, my baby brother and I were staying in Ashton, where another baby was born. Mother was still in bed with the baby when the child next to me, who had been ill for three weeks, passed away. The baby had been placed on an ironing board by an open window, it was from here that I rolled him into my arms. I carried him into the living room, where he was taken away from me.
Although the folks have given ne every possible chance, I oftn wonder if I couldn’t of had more if the family had not have been so large.
The next two and one half yrs flew by fast, before I could realize it I was six years old and ready for school.
Chapter II
School Is On
I was six years old in June the next Sept. I started to school. That year was not very profitible. We had to go five miles to school, some times we had to walk and when we did I had to stay home. Later on in the year I took sick and missed so much school that I was retained and had to take the first grade over again the next year. There was one year gone and nothing accomplished.
One of my greatest sports was junping the rope. I was extremely small for my age and jumping the rope seemed natural for me to do. I can vividly remember how wishfu my play mates looked and how happy I was when the uppergrade girls would let me junp with them.
I had many a quarrels which I suppose would have led to fights if I had not had so many brothers and sisters to protect me and fight for me.
The school house that I first attended school in, was a small gray building with three rooms. There were two class rooms and a basement. Every morming when the bell sounded, all of the children would line up and while the teachers kept time by clapping their hands, we would march into the basement. There we would spend about one half hour singing songs and other exercises. From there we would march to our class rooms, and start our days work.
I can truly say that I was once a teachers pet, or maby it was just the way she treated me. I was favored on every hand, of course I didn’t think so at the time, for I was too small to understand. I was put in every play, every song(although I couldn’t sing) and every time the teacher left the room, I was left incharge. I can remember how anxious I was to put down the other children’s names.
Another incident I can clearly remember, seems very funny now to think about, but at the time I didn’t know whether to cry or not. We had to go down over the hill to the river to get drinking water, I was told to never go unless the teacher was with me, but as most children would do I went. I was just ready to dip my glass into the swift water, when splash my shoe had fallen into the stream. I saw it float down to where my girl friend was standing.
‘Get it in your glass,’ I cried to her. She didn’t even know what I wanted her to get in her glass, so of course she didn’t get it. My punishment was to walk home on the gravel road without a shoe. The next day mother left me with one of the neighbors while she went to town and purchased me some new shoes.
When I ws in the third grade we moved to where we now live. Here I passed throught he third, fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh grades. When I was in the eighth grade, I thought I was bigger than I did any other time fo my life. When the state exams came I was so frightened I lost several nights sleep over it. When the morning, the exams were to be given came, I was so frightened I couldn’t hardly operate my pencil.
Two or three days later we got the returns from our grades, I had passed every one that I expected I would, but of course I had failed in arithmetec just the one I expected. The next day I took it over and made it with a low grade.
I cannot express my feelings the might the class of 32 graduates marched upon the stand to receive our diplomas.
Just before graduation the studio burned down, and we were not able to have pictures taken
Chapter III
Mission Bells
The spring of 1930, my oldest brother was called to fill a mission, in the western states.
I can remember how we children at home labored in the beets to support him while there. Mother wouldn’t see him come home before he had completed his work.
It was them that I first found out what it was to sacrafice and go without what I really needed.
I can remember the summer of 1931, when all of my girl friends got a new sweater out fit, I also can remember how bad I wanted one.
That summer a group of girls with an instructor planned a three days trip to Lava Hot Springs, of course I was not able to go. I felt rather humiliated at the thought of every one going but me.
The leader was making the final check up two days before we were to go, it was then that Mother had promised me that I could go, and she did.
After two years of sacraficing, he returned home. As though he was twenty three yrs old and my other brother twenty two, they started back to high school and are now almost ready to graduate from college.
Chapter IV
Was I Green.
I was fourteen years old when I g raduated from grammar school and was ready to gomore out into the world and mingle with different people.
The first day I went to high school, we registered. Although it was a small school, I just had to follow the crowd, who was just as green as I was.
My freshman year seems dear to me, it was then that I pulled down the good grades. I really think I put fourth more effort.
My sophmore year I began to learn the ways of the school, as least I didn’t haveto carry the seniors books and shine the juniors shoes. But I did have to be called a sophie, which I didn’t like very well.
Before I could realize it my junior year slipped up. I managed fairly well the first semester, but oh dear for the last semester.
It was only the ninth of Dec, when I was thrown from a sleigh. When I picked myself up I felt a terrible pain shoot through my shoulder. My first thought was that I had broken my shoulde r bone./ When I reache d home my parents said it was not brokenbut it was a badly dislocated. They rushed me to the hospital. While I was waiting for the doctor to come, the intern who was a Japanese began to get things re ady.
I really was afraid to have my arm set without taking ether, and if you have e ver had a smel of that you no doubt know how terr ible it is. I thought the doctor would think I was a coward if I asded fo r some, I had no need to worry for just then he said.,
‘Smell this’.
‘Alright doctor, but hurry’
There seemed to be a deep roar; my thoughts went off in a jumble, round and round I sped like a wheel, and them I was gone.
It was three weeks before I was able to have my arm and shoulder taken out of the sling.
This was where I got my first D. It was in Home Economics. Here I resolved to drop the class and take and F. It didn’t seem much worse to me., The teacher encouraged me to keep on. My grade came from D. to C. and them t o A.
It was not long after this untill my health began to fail andI didn’t ;much care what happened to me. He re again there had to be more money paid out for doctor bills. Mother encouraged me to forget my worries and keep on with my school. Finally school ended, and I had made my credits and was ready for a vacation.
That following summer I was put in the Sunday School an a teacher, here I had to brace up and serve as a leader, To set examples for the children and prepare a good lesson.
Yes, it was that year that I had to start wearing glasses.
Chapter V
A Dignified Senior
How I miss the seniors of 35, school doesn’t seem like it did when they were here, to help the lower calssmen. Never-the-less O have to make school better for the Juniors, sophmores and freshmen.
I should by all means gradiate with average grades, because I have only four credits to make, which makes two subjects. Although I am taking more than that
Just last week I had to drop one of my subjects, the one I liked the be st, it was Dramatic Art. This was done on the accountof my health.
Just to prove to you that we have good teachers at the Ammon High School, I will tell you a little about each, especially the English and History teachers.
The teacher we have for history is a coach and a good one. He must take pity on his students, anyway one would think so, if they would see the simple assignments he gives in history, he is full of fun and he makes the history clall bearable for us. The English teacher is quite different in some respects. She is jolly the same as is the History teacher, but can she give good assignments. I would think that she takes after the teacher she had for English.
When I started to school My freshman year there was one thing I looked forward to, the same through my sophmore and junior years, but now I have it, my senior class ring. Even though it did cost me one week’s hard labor in the potato field, I am not sorry of my purchase. This makes me appreciate it more than ever.
This is the first year the Ammor High School has had a school paper. It is just a small one but it will help us to recall memories when we have been gone and have forgotten our school. The editor of this paper is a very dear friend of mine (Tomayo Morisita) I have associated with her through the last two years of grammar school and all four years of high school. She has the ability to fill this position very well and makes it a success.
In about six months my high school day will be ended, unless I have tough luck. I am lving in the hopes of attending the A.C. at Logan Utah, here I hope to minor in Home Economics o Dramatics.
(This last entry was recorded in pencil) I graduated from High School May 15, 1936, and now I am ready for college.
Norma graduated from Ammon High School 13 May 1932, attended Ricks College and graduated there 3 June 1938 with an associates degree in education. Utah State University gave her the BA needed to continue teaching school on 6 June 1970. She also attended Idaho State University in Pocatello, ID for additional classes. By this time the Smith home had gravel roads and electricity (1933) and even added running water by 1944.
After graduating from Ricks it was time for Norma to enter the “real” world of work. She now had a teaching degree and applied for jobs in many places. She was finally accepted in Grace, Idaho( I - being Jerri - remember mom saying how glad her siblings were that she finally had a job because it meant one less person in the bed).
The following is Norma’s story of meeting her future husband...”A girl from Pocatello and I lived with a Jones family. Finally another teacher who was with an Emma Christensen talked Ardis and I into moving to Emma Christensens. That was a bad move. Emmy was an old hussy. We needed to walk the straight and narrow way all the time. I had been to MIA and met Gail Ray. We started dating. He was then engaged to another girl (Ann Pledger, and it is my understanding that she was a smoker so we’re doubly glad dad didn’t stay engaged to her). We fell in love. One Friday he took me to Pocatello to meet my bus to Idaho Falls and to meet Ann and take her back to Grace. That week end he broke the engagement with her. So now the field was open. We dated, were engaged by Christmas 1939. While I was living at hussy Emmy’s Gail and I were out on a date. I guess we were a bit late and Emmy locked me out. We went to the bedroom window where the other two teachers were and knocked on the window. They let me in. Well, we soon moved from there to other homes. Helen left that next spring and Ardis and I found an apartment.”
The following is Norma’s courting story in her own words:
Ardis and I were in the 1st ward, but Gail convinced us to go to the second ward - where he was. First ward was a little upset with us, but we didn’t care. Finally we did move to second ward and all was well. Anyway to begin our ‘relationship’ we were in a play together. I was always patching up the troubles he had with his leading lady. After play practice one night he asked me to go out with him. That really started our dating. From then on it was steady.
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That summer after school was out I went home to Idaho Falls. He would drive up late every Saturday night after his work in the Roghaar grocery store and spend the weekend. It was always a short week end and back Sunday night. I came down to Grace one weekend to attend a dance ‘tween the rocks (here Norma challenges us - “bet you don’t know where that is”. Ha! As you enter Grace, Idaho from the north after crossing the bridge you will see two rocks and between them is a cement pad. In the past I understand this is where the dancing took place, but today the kids use their skateboards there). Anyway I had made me a new dress, blue no less and lacey. Well I had to make a slip to go under it.
I returned to Grace when school started. The next Christmas he had a ring fro me. He bought a fancy pillow and tied the ring box to the pillow. He had shown the ring to my roommate. I was surprised (sorta), but not very.
The happy couple was married 31 May 1940 in the Logan LDS Temple by Joseph Quinney Jr.. The witnesses were David A. Smith (my father) and Alonza Cook. We went to the Temple. Gail’s parents went with us as did Iris, Elmer and Alice on his side of the family. My parents were with us also, but his couldn’t go through the session with us. Mom and dad did. After coming out of the temple my Aunt Nettie had dinner for all of us. We were married by Pres. George Quincy, president of the Logan Temple.
We stayed in Salt Lake that night, then left for California on our honeymoon. We went to the World’s Fair and stayed with Gail’s Aunt Rena Ray. Gail’s mom arranged with hr sister for us to ring the sister’s daughter home. Three of us in a one seat car - interesting. On the way home I was driving. We were crossing a desert. I fell asleep and we went bouncing across the desert. Really no harm done.
Gail and I had picked out a stove, bedroom set and table/chairs and settled down in our little home. We were quite cozy with outdoor plumbing. We did have running water in our kitchen.
The next August I became terribly ill - a bad gall bladder attack. Every time anyone touched the ed I started to up chuck. So Gail threw a quilt and pillow on the floor and slept there. I soon had surgery and found there was a stone in the gall bladder duct. It was very painful. I was in the hospital for two weeks. When I came home I was so weak I couldn’t even walk alone.
All went well. By Feb of 1942 I was expecting a baby We had no way of knowing which sex it would be. Gail had been called up to the draft board. I was in the hospital awaiting the arrival of a baby. He was running between the draft board and hospital in Pocatello. I had ridden to the hospital with Dr. Kohlor and Gail’s dad and mom in our car. Anyway a baby girl was finally delivered. What an exciting event! The next day neither Gail or the Dr. were able to come back. It snowed during the night - lots of snow.
The next 18 months Gail enlisted. He had been deferred but didn’t feel good about that. Anyway Gerrie and I went to Vancouver, Washington where my dad and Uncle Reid worked in the ship yards. We stayed there for some time. I found a job working in a nursery school. My mother kept Jerrie. While there we received a visit from someone delivering a telegram from the Army. Mom wouldn’t take it, she probably knew what it was. A neighbor called me at the nursery school. I hurried home and took the telegram. It said, “sorry to inform you that your son has been killed in action in France.” That was a very traumatic time. Reid, Rhea, Dad, Mo, Harvey, you and I drove home to Idaho Falls for memorial services.
While Gail was in store keeping school at Farragut, Idaho, I went there to spend some time with him. On the train my suit case was switched with one just like it. Only this one had a pair of mens pajamas in it. I had on a white polka dot dress, very dressy, high heeled shoed. I had to go to all the activities at Farragut dressed like that. Finally we were able to get my suitcase back.
One time while I was on the train going to meet Gail, the conductor said I should not be on that train as it was for service personnel. Gail had arranged with a rather tall (about 6 feet) kid from home to claim me as his wife. So this he did and all was well. Jerrie wandered around our train car and had the servicemen making such a fuss over her that she would come back to me with her hands full of money.
Gail and his company were at Astoria ,Oregon getting their ship ‘ship shape’ for over seas travel. He had met a fellow and became quite close to him. His wife was in Montana and I was in Vancouver, WA. The fellows decided we should come spend some time with them. She had three girls, one Jerrie’s age and two older. So she drove to Vancouver, WA, with her kids and a baby bed on top of her car. My dad loaded Gerrie’s crib on top of the already loaded car and off we took, looking like a scene from The Grapes of Wrath, to find our husbands. When we finally did we were sent to a house quite fr out of town. The person who owned the home wouldn’t take any rent money. We had our baby bed’s and the other two girls slept on a camp cot, one at each end. There were two beds for us two couples.
Soon afterward Gail and I went to Sea Side, Oregon. We had an apartment there. Jerrie and I could walk to the little town and the beach to kill time. Gail was able to come home at night. When they took the USS Drew out for a trial run, I went back to Vancouver. Gerrie and I would go to be with Gail once at Spokane, WA and once at San Francisco. We would then stay in hotels. Finally the ship set sail for over seas. Jerrie and I again left for Vancouver, WA.
The day the war ended we were on the train with many other returning service men also. The conductor announced VJ Day. At last the War was over!!!! For a moment there was perfect silence I don’t know why unless everyone was too shocked to shout. Gail was not released along with others. He was frozen and had to issue pay checks for awhile. We finally arrived in Grace and settled into our little home. By this time Jerrie had been away from her daddy so long that they had to get reacquainted. Gail worked in the Petersen’s grocery store, then was asked to take a test for postal clerk. He worked in the Post Office as a clerk until Merriam passed away and was then made post master. That was good employment.
Jerrie grew and had good health. On April 1947 twin boys, Dennis and Doyle, were delivered. Dennis weighed 5'1" and Doyle 5'. That was 10 pounds of babies. (Norma remembers that when they were born the doctor delivered Dennis and was getting ready to clean up when Doyle began his appearance. The dr. shouted, “My G.. ! Here comes another one.”).However, both babies were thin and not really very healthy, especially Doyle. He couldn’t keep a formula down and they only ate 2", which took them almost an hour. I ws at the hospital for 10 days. Dr. Kohler came and asked me if it would be alright if a Mrs. Perkins nursed Doyle. Her milk agreed with him better. One day a nurse had worked her shift and offered to work the night shift. She gave all the babies paregoric. It really knocked Doyle out. When the nurse took him in to Klea to nurse she couldn’t awaken him and could smell the paregoric on him. She told Dr. Kohler. He was white with anger and said if he could find another nurse he would let her go. I took Dennis home. The Fr. Asked Klea Perkins to stay one more day so Doyle could have his shots. She did and when she finally took her healthy baby (8 ½ pounds) home she also took a little four pound runt along. We had to drive clear to Chesterfield every other day and take Doyle and Dennis to the Dr. That was really a drag. Finally when Doyle was five weeks old he had gained his birth weight back and we were able to take him home for good. Jerrie said Dennis was her baby and didn’t have much to do with Doyle for some time. By the time they were a year old they looked like normal babies. We have always been thankful to Klea Perkins for doing double duty to save our little Doyle.
When we brought those two additional children home our little two room place was too small. Gail’s father put a trailer house (it was an old wooden one about 8 x 8) on the east side of the home, put a hall between the two structures and made a bit of a bath (Insert here. I remember this quite well because the out house style of living was less than wonderful. I remember looking in wonder at the white porcelain and marveling at how wonderful it was to sit on the pot and take a shower at the same time.), a closet on the other side and now there was room in that trailer addition for our bed and a big dresser and two cribs. Jerrie slept on either the couch in the living room or a cot in the kitchen (there was also a covered porch that I recall sleeping there also, although mom says I didn’t. I am convinced it was sleeping there that made me a fresh air freak.) When the twins were 18 mo. old we moved into our present home for which we paid a whooping $8,000 .
Dennis was very upset with the move and laid on the top of me with his arms around my neck. Doyle went to bed to sleep, but finally we were able to put both of them in their cribs.
In the meantime Gail worked in the day and laid carpet at night to support our family. One day I went to town and bought two bushel of tomatoes. I took one in to work on it and left the other outside with the id securely shut. I heard my little boys laughing so hard. We had them fenced in across the drive way and the back yard. I didn’t out go see why they were being so good. But when I did they had somehow taken the lid off the other bushel of tomatoes and both were dancing up and down in that bushel of tomatoes. They were always full of mischief. Once Gail heard a rumble when he started the car. He asked the boys what they had done. One reported “Ocks” and when further investigation occurred they had put rocks in the tank. It had be removed and cleaned. When we would go to Yellowstone we would camp in the camp ground on top of the Snake River Canyon. The three children loved to make dams and play in the water.
On Aug. 20, 1952, Eric joined our little growing family. He was a healthy baby. It was hunting season and Gail was sweating out the birth so he could go hunting. The baby arrived and the hunt went on. Jerri grew very close to him, too him to the ‘flibrary’ and almost everywhere she went. Dennis was disappointed that Eric was not a girl. Eric was quite well until he was about four or five. He got a big sliver in his leg below his butt. I took him to the dr. in Preston to get it out and he had heart problems. He was in the hospital for a week or more. I then knew why he just sat at his base when they played baseball.
I have to back up before Eric’s birth. We were going to Preston with Gail. He was going to lay some linoleum or carpet. Jerrie, Dennis, Doyle and I were going to visit Gail’s Aunt Alice. Jerrie had been sitting on my lap when Dennis became car sick. Jerrie moved in the middle and Dennis sat on my lap. I rolled the window down and hit the latch on the door of the truck. Dennis and I flew out of the truck onto the gravel road. Dennis had a small rock sticking out of his head
and I was really bruised. I pulled the rock out and we went to Preston to the dr. He took a stitch or two or three in Dennis’ head and examined me. We were really blessed that we were not severely hurt. Gail accomplished his carpet job and life went on as usual.
The next baby to come (and the last) was a girl. Everyone was happy except Jerrie. She wouldn’t even looked at her. I guess she had a case of I’ve-been-the-only-girl-in-the-family-why-mess-up-a-good-thing-itis. Janet was born Sept 23, 1957. My mother came to help me. She was holding the baby and simply placed her in Jerrie’s arms. That did it and they were finally friends.
Janet was a joy to all of us and evened things out with another girl. Eric loved her so much. She was fun to dress. He would help me with the baby especially in the winter. He would hold doors for me, help me off with my coat and undress Janet. One day she and I had walked to town. On the way back we noticed a family moving in down the street from our home. We saw a little girl and went over to visit. I introduced us to the Andersons who became our fast friends. The little girl Kathy became bosom buddies with Janet. The two girls had two homes and each had another mother. If one mother was gone they would go to the other home.
Gail decided I should go back to school and get my Bachelors degree (I had an associates degree at this time.). He sorta sent me out on a board and pushed me off. That summer Janet went out to Andersons and I started school, took some classes at Idaho State University and some in Logan at USU. Finally Janet was in school and I took classes off campus at Soda, Grace and Pocatello and finally graduated from USU in Logan with a Bachelor degree.